為什麼做 ResonMate
有些經歷很難跟身邊的人說。像是照顧生病的家人:跟朋友講,怕變成抱怨,對方也不知道怎麼接;發在社群上,又好像太沉重。所以很多人就一直自己扛著。
我也走過這段路,所以知道有些事需要一個地方說,而且最好是說給真的懂的人聽。
ResonMate 不是另一個交友 App。你寫下一段真實的經歷,和寫過相似經歷的人在小群組裡聊。不用多解釋,對方就知道那是什麼感覺。
願意寫下這些故事的人,拿出來的往往是很脆弱的一面,所以這裡一定要讓人安心:故事相似才能加入、每個群最多 8 人、沒有可以瀏覽的名單,也沒有陌生人私訊。
即將在台灣的 App Store 與 Google Play 推出
怎麼開始
- 寫下你的故事寫一段真實發生過的經歷:發生了什麼事、和誰、在哪裡。故事只有你看得到,會用來和其他人的故事比對。
- 找到相似的故事比對的是經歷本身:發生了什麼事、和誰有關、在什麼樣的地方,不是心情。不看外表或條件。
- 從一篇故事開一個群從你的故事建群,故事和它相似的人會收到通知、可以加入;也可以帶著你的故事,加入別人從相似的故事建的群。
- 在故事底下聊每個人帶進群的故事,要自己在群裡分享,其他人才讀得到。分享之後,大家就從這段經歷聊起,第一句話不用從「你好」開始。
安心地聊
Why ResonMate
Some things are hard to talk about with the people around you. Caring for a family member who is ill, for one: tell a friend and it can sound like complaining, and they may not know what to say; post it online and it feels too heavy. So many people carry it alone.
I have been down that road too, so I know some things need a place to be said, and best of all to someone who truly understands.
ResonMate is not just another app for meeting people. Write about something that really happened to you, and talk in a small group with people who have written about something similar. There is no need to explain: they know what it feels like.
People who write these stories often show a fragile side of themselves, so this has to be a place where they feel safe: you join only when your stories are alike, a group has at most eight people, and there is no list to browse and no messages from strangers.
Coming soon to the App Store and Google Play in Taiwan
How it works
- Write your storiesWrite about something that really happened: what, with whom, where. Only you can read your stories; they are compared with other people's.
- Find stories that resonateResonance compares the experience itself: what happened, who was there, what kind of place. Not the mood, and not looks or status.
- Start a group from a storyStart a group from one of your stories, and people whose stories resonate with it hear about it and can join. Or bring your story to a group someone started from a story like it.
- Talk right below the storyEach person shares the story they brought when they choose, and the group talks about that experience. No need to open with "hi".